"God, Why Am I Not Married?"

​​9 Reasons You Might Still Be Single ​​

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​An age old problem...

Relationship issues have been in existence since, well, the beginning of existence, and there have been numerous books, movies, commentary, among other things that have attempted to dissect this critical and complicated relationship. Many of these resources give us tips, insights, and suggestions on how we can attain and maintain the ideal relationships most of us dream of, but often they only scratch the surface of what relationships are all about. 

​In Stephanie Kekeocha's revised 9-part series, "God, Why Am I Not Married?" 9 Reason You Might Be Single, she gives thought-​provoking and insightful answers to these age-old problems from God's perspective. Unlike many ​relationship improvement resources, she traces these problems back to their spiritual origin to eradicate them at the source. Her deeply spiritual and foundational approach marks the path for establishing the happy and healthy relationships most of us long for which begins with understanding ourselves first.  

Stephanie Kekeocha is a certified life and relationship coach and uses each book in her series to highlight one reason you might still be single or struggling in your marriage. At the end of each book are questions for single and married women to help determine if the proposed reason applies to them, along with practical steps towards freedom and renewal if it does. 
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This series is sure to change the way you see relationships, yourself, God, and how all of these things are connected. If you've been searching for serious answers about your relationship struggles, whether married or single, with this series, you've found them.  ​

"Sometimes the truth is hard to hear but if you really want it,
these books are where you will find it."
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"These are some of the most eye-opening books about
​ relationships you will ever read."

 The Series

Reason #1: Unanswered Prayers

.....becasue you want a husband more than you want God. 
​Have you been praying for a spouse or better marriage and God doesn't seem to be listening?
Does your unmet desire for companionship feel like a plague on your life?
Are you on the edge of losing or have lost your faith because of it?
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Reason #1 in this series explores the source of our desires for companionship and why God gave us a need for something He doesn't always fulfill. It reveals common misconceptions and the hidden pitfalls of desire and how they often prevent us from receiving the very things we pray for. After reading this book, you will understand that when God says "no," there is always a profound reason. And furthermore, once those reasons are addressed, we position ourselves for great blessings.

​ If you're interested in grabbing your desires by the reigns and making them work for you, reason #1 in this series is an absolute must-read.                                          
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​Reason #2: The Creation of Eve

.....because you don't know who you really are. 
​Many of the difficulties women encounter when it comes to meeting the right partners and even in marriage stem from a lack of identity. As women, this is such a huge problem that it's one of the underlying causes of almost all the struggles we face throughout our lives. Due to this lack of identity, it's not uncommon for us to try and shape ourselves into what the world and others expect from us which consequently leads to us not learning about who we are for ourselves.

In the second installment of the "God, Why Am I Not Married?" series, Stephanie Kekeocha dissects the origins of a woman's identity, what the value of womanhood really means, and how women were specially designed to function within relationships. She reveals that before a woman can truly understand what attracts a loving partner and how to make a relationship work, she must first understand herself. 

Read this book and see the power an authority of womanhood in a whole new light.        
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Reason #3: Heal Me!

.....because you need healing.
Are you expecting your spouse to heal your emotional wounds?
​A better question is, how would you know if you were?

 In Reason 3# of this thought-provoking series, Stephanie K. reveals that our desire for love and companionship may not be all that it appears to be. She explains that for many, a need for healing lies hidden within their powerful desire for a spouse, which she believes probably kills more relationships than cheating. She lays out in great detail what a deeper search for healing looks like within relationships and how it can bring relationships to a breaking point. She also guides readers step-by-step through the process of true healing, revealing her own painful journey along the way. By the end of this installment, she reveals that fully embracing the love we were designed to receive is great but that it doesn't hold a candle to being mentally and emotionally free. 

If true transformation is what you've been looking for, don't pass up the opportunity to read this book.                                         

Reason #4: The Sacred Doorway

.....because you haven't learned to conquer your flesh.
 Of all the ways we can feel alone in our trials and struggles, such isn't the case when it comes to sex. In fact, sexual struggles are so common, in and outside the church, that many believers remain in vicious, self-destructive cycles, unaware of the power available to us to overcome. 

In Reason #4 of this series, certified life and relationship coach Stephanie K. brings her gift of insight to the topic of sex and turns common beliefs about sex and sexuality on its head. She shows that knowledge is definitely power as she explains why God created sex, what it actually does to us in the spirit, and how it affects men and women differently. She leaves no leaf unturned while tackling sexual abuse, masturbation, and sexuality in popular culture and believes that in-depth knowledge is where we can gain the willpower to be victorious in the face of sexual temptation. So, whether you struggle to refrain from sex while single or struggle to enjoy or exercise self-control in your marriage, Reason #4 will leave no doubts as to the sacredness of sex.     

If you've ever stuggled with sex, have questions, or simply want to enter marriage with the right frame of mind about sexuality, this book was written for you.                                        

The Following Reasons.....

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REASON #5: THE GIFT OF SINGLENESS

Reason #5: The Gift of Singleness

.....because you don't see the gift in singleness
Many singles who desire marriage see their singleness as a curse but ironically it's in our alone time that God prepares us for marriage. Once we learn to embrace the advantages of being single and use this time to get in-tuned with ourselves and God, we become more equipped to handle the married life God wants to give us. ​
​REASON #6: GUIDED BY REASON

Reason #6: Guided By Reason

.....because you don't know how to follow and let him lead
These days submission has become a dirty word. It's a word that's been associated with the willingness to accept humiliation, abuse, and misery. Because of this many women of today resist the idea of submitting in marriage and are ready to go to war with any man who expects it. But such women don't fully understand that along with resisting the dominion of man, they are also resisting God's design and setting themselves up for a failed marriage before it even begins.

In Reason #6 of this series discover God's powerful purpose for submission and how it not only empowers and protects women and marriage but gives us a glimpse into God's nature and the harmony that comes from conforming to His image. 
​REASON #7: THE WORTH OF A MAN

Reason #7: The Worth Of A Man

.....because you are looking for the wrong things in a spouse
​​It's common for men and women alike to have high standards or a detailed list of what they want and expect from a potential partner. Such lists, often based on past traumas, also include things like height, weight, career path, and credit scores. However, although there may be some wisdom to our preferences at times, most of them usually have little to do with God's plan and purposes for our marriages. 

This book will expose some of our most trivial preferences for a spouse, how they can interfere with God's plan, and what  good and godly man actually looks like.   
​​REASON #8: THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE

Reason #8: The Truth About Marriage

.....because you have the wrong idea about marriage
​​We all have expectations when it comes to the things we desire most, especially when it comes to marriage. However, just as the realization of what we envision eventually proves to be much more complicated once we actually attain it, our expectations for marriage can easily be summed up as a mere fantasy.

In the 8th book of this series, author and relationship coach Stephanie K. dives deep into the difficult truth about marriage and how it is much more about God than it is about us.  
​REASON #9: ENDURE THE PROCESS

Reason #9: Endure The Process

.....because you don't see the bigger picture
​​To wrap up this eye-opening series, Stephanie K. reveals that all eight preceding reasons are about greater goals often overlooked in our quest for love and companionship. She reveals how our deep struggles and desires inevitably point back to God and that by enduring the lessons necessary to understand these connections, we reach beyond this life and into God's eternal plan for humanity. 

Reviews


  "Great book, written by a super nice lady. Note: this book isn't just for singles, and her other book,
​wasn't just for  women. Thank you Stephanie for being true, simply by being you !!!!! "   ​
​                                                   -Darlene from Illinois

"Even though this book is for women, I got a lot out
​of it too. I see my wife and my role in her life much differently. Thank you Stephanie." 
                                                         ​-Tom from Denver

"Stephanie brings people into her world experience from beginning to end. God has blessed
her with this gift. I thank her and all the people that this book brings together !!!!!"
                                                       -Crystal from Illinois

"Wow! Be ready to be transformed! This book opened my eyes to understand the REAL reasons
why I might still be single but also gave me the tools to become the woman God intended me to be!
It's a must-read for any single woman!  
​It needs to be read again and again and even read to your children to put them
​ahead of the game! A blessing!"
                                                                                                                                                                -Zina from Illinois
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