.....because you don't know who you really are. 

Many of the difficulties women encounter when it comes to meeting the right partners and even in marriage stem from a lack of identity. As women, this is such a huge problem that it's one of the underlying causes of almost all the struggles we face throughout our lives. Due to this lack of identity, it's not uncommon for us to try and shape ourselves into what the world and others expect from us which consequently leads to us not learning about who we are for ourselves.

In the second installment of the "God, Why Am I Not Married?" series, Stephanie Kekeocha dissects the origins of a woman's identity, what the value of womanhood really means, and how women were specially designed to function within relationships. She reveals that before a woman can truly understand what attracts a loving partner and how to make a relationship work, she must first understand herself. 

Read this book and see the power an authority of womanhood in a whole new light.  

…..because you need healing.

Are you expecting your spouse to heal your emotional wounds?
​A better question is, how would you know if you were?

In Reason 3# of this thought-provoking series, Stephanie K. reveals that our desire for love and companionship may not be all that it appears to be. She explains that for many, a need for healing lies hidden within their powerful desire for a spouse, which she believes probably kills more relationships than cheating. She lays out in great detail what a deeper search for healing looks like within relationships and how it can bring relationships to a breaking point. She also guides readers step-by-step through the process of true healing, revealing her own painful journey along the way. By the end of this installment, she reveals that fully embracing the love we were designed to receive is great but that it doesn't hold a candle to being mentally and emotionally free. 

If true transformation is what you've been looking for, don't pass up the opportunity to read this book.             

.....because you haven't learned to tame your sex drive.

Of all the ways we can feel alone in our trials and struggles, such isn't the case when it comes to sex. In fact, sexual struggles are so common, in and outside the church, that many believers remain in vicious, self-destructive cycles, unaware of the power available to us to overcome. 

In Reason #4 of this series, certified life and relationship coach Stephanie K. brings her gift of insight to the topic of sex and turns common beliefs about sex and sexuality on its head. She shows that knowledge is definitely power as she explains why God created sex, what it actually does to us in the spirit, and how it affects men and women differently. She leaves no leaf unturned while tackling sexual abuse, masturbation, and sexuality in popular culture and believes that in-depth knowledge is where we can gain the willpower to be victorious in the face of sexual temptation. So, whether you struggle to refrain from sex while single or struggle to enjoy or exercise self-control in your marriage, Reason #4 will leave no doubts as to the sacredness of sex.     

If you've ever stuggled with sex, have questions, or simply want to enter marriage with the right frame of mind about sexuality, this book was written for you.          

…..because you haven’t accepted the gift of singleness.

Many singles who desire marriage see their singleness as a curse but ironically it's in our alone time that God prepares us for marriage. Once we learn to embrace the advantages of being single and use this time to get in-tuned with ourselves and God, we become more equipped to handle the married life God wants to give us. ​

.....because you don't know how to let him lead.

These days submission has become a dirty word. It's a word that's been associated with the willingness to accept humiliation, abuse, and misery. Because of this many women of today resist the idea of submitting in marriage and are ready to go to war with any man who expects it. But such women don't fully understand that along with resisting the dominion of man, they are also resisting God's design and setting themselves up for a failed marriage before it even begins.

In Reason #6 of this series discover God's powerful purpose for submission and how it not only empowers and protects women and marriage but gives us a glimpse into God's nature and the harmony that comes from conforming to His image. 

.....because you are looking for the wrong things in a spouse.

​​It's common for men and women alike to have high standards or a detailed list of what they want and expect from a potential partner. Such lists, often based on past traumas, also include things like height, weight, career path, and credit scores. However, although there may be some wisdom to our preferences at times, most of them usually have little to do with God's plan and purposes for our marriages. 

This book will expose some of our most trivial preferences for a spouse, how they can interfere with God's plan, and what a good and godly man actually looks like. 

....because you have the wrong idea about marriage.

We all have expectations when it comes to the things we desire most, especially when it comes to marriage. However, just as the realization of what we envision eventually proves to be much more complicated once we actually attain it, our expectations for marriage can easily be summed up as a mere fantasy.

In the 8th book of this series, author and relationship coach Stephanie K. dives deep into the difficult truth about marriage and how it is much more about God than it is about us.  

....because you don't see the bigger picture.

​​To wrap up this eye-opening series, Stephanie K. reveals that all eight preceding reasons are about greater goals often overlooked in our quest for love and companionship. She reveals how our deep struggles and desires inevitably point back to God and that by enduring the lessons necessary to understand these connections, we reach beyond this life and into God's eternal plan for humanity.